How to make Life Ideal

I work and meet with many people who want to make their lives perfect, and who want to create their own business to help them achieve the lifestyle they crave.

And while I'm all for working for yourself so you can have the lifestyle associated with it, I know that you don’t have to start a business to create your ideal life.

I believe that you can work hard for building your ideal lifestyle now, regardless of whether you are traditionally or self-employed.

Steps to help you living your ideal life:

 1. How Should ideal lifestyle looks like.

Most of the time, we have a vague sense about what we want our lives to be, but we have no idea that what the lives looks like. When you can break down what you really want, you’re better able to take the steps to make it happen.

Take a pen and paper then walk yourself through your ideal day. Where would you be? Who would you be spending time with? What would you be doing? And most importantly, how would you be feeling? Just getting these things down on paper does a lot to clear our minds. Writing your ideas down not only solidifies them, but also clears up mental space so that you can focus on your current life, while leaving your previous life, making your current life ideal.

2. Divisin of Ideal Life Memories.

Family, friends, career, health, spirituality, personal space, hobbies etc. Whatever categories feel right for you. When you have everything in categories, you can see each one and relate how close your ideal is to where you are now. Once you know that, ask yourself “What one thing can I start doing Now that will get me closer to my ideal?” After this Do this Thing.

For example, in your past, if your ideal life you would have more time for nurturing friends, then commit to planning one night a week where you can improve your ideal life ideas. You can plan weekly “date nights” with your best friend, or you commit to Skyping with a different friend for an hour each week.

 3. Be grateful about what your present lifestyle.

What elements of your life would not to change, even if you could? What parts of it are pretty darn near perfect? We spend more time in changing ourselves, when a lot of what we want is often right under our noses. Sure, you might prefer to be reading books on the beach without a care in the world, but maybe you’re grateful for a job that allows the financial freedom for you and your family to go on vacation once a year.

Sometimes we crave change because we feel things are out of our control. When you stop and realize that even if you could change things, you wouldn’t want to, it can help you realize that it's actually a choice, and that you are in control. Being grateful for what you do have allows you to focus on the present, instead of always dreaming of a different future.

Knowing that you don’t have to wait to start living the lifestyle you want is not only refreshing, but liberating! You get to create your life, right now. What will you do to start living your ideal lifestyle today.